We all know that love and relationships can get complicated. But of course there are ways to get a relationship that is happy, blissful and the envy of the rest of us.
5 Things Your Partner Wants to Hear Every Day
“I would rather be with you” – there is nothing more amazing than knowing that your partner has something quite significant coming up that will take them away from you, and them choosing to spend that time with you instead of doing what they were planning to. It could be a game of football or basketball and hanging out with the guys that they have to pass up. It could just be a day with the girls at a spa or a concert that you have been waiting for, for a long time. Giving up something to spend time with the person you love is huge, and nothing says “I value you” more than that.
“I was hoping that would be you” – Today, the way we communicate is way different than the way we used to in the past. Before, phone calls were in the center of the way we used to communicate. Today however, with whatsapp, viber, bbm and many of these social platforms, people do not really call as much. With some people feeling that calling someone is somewhat of a burden or a nuisance, it’s nice to hear your person saying they were hoping it would be you on the other side of the line.
“What’s your rose honey” – Being in a relationship and making it work has a lot to do with the way you engage and communicate with each other. At the end of the day, it’s always nice to have someone to share the day with, and it says more than anything that you care and that you are there for your partner. Also, it’s a great way for your partner to open up about the most frustrating part of their day, as after asking about their rose (great part of the day), you will then ask about the thorns (not-so-great part of their day).
“Let me help you find it”– Losing something of value is enough to get someone panicked and sad. So, when your partner loses something that is close to their heart, you have to be there for them. Let them know that you are volunteering your time to help them find it. Let your partner know that you will be right there with them in their pursuit to find this thing that they have lost. This tells them that you will not bail out on them.
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“I sleep so much better with you” – A lot of people have issues going to sleep. And more people have problems sleeping throughout the night. It is so much better when there is someone there sleeping with you, someone who can hold you when you have a bad dream, or someone to cuddle with when you want to be cuddled. It is definitely better than holding on to a pillow, right? Your partner will smile at the thought of you sleeping better because they are there.
These are only 5 things that will make your partner smile when you tell them these things. After all, it is the little things that count. You can make your partner feel great, while improving your relationship at the same time.
Would you like to add to this list? Tell us what you appreciate about your partner, something that makes you light up when they do something. Comment below, and don’t forget to share.