If you are tired of your life the way it is, then it is time to make changes that will set your life to go in a direction that will make you smile.
Most of us want to see change in our lives, unfortunately very few people are ready to make the decisions that they need to, and actually follow through.
Sometimes, we are trapped into thinking that we have to make HUGE changes in our lives for our lives to improve, we think that we have to do almost the impossible to see our lives move in the direction that we want.
That however, is not the whole truth!
Change happens inside of us! It has to start within you, with making a real decision that counts and that means something to you. Only once you have decided, can you start to move outwardly to where you want to go.
So, if you want to see real change in your life, here are 7 decisions that can change the course of your life for the better:
Enough IS Enough – you have to decide that it is enough, that you will no longer accept a life of mediocrity. Every time you have accepted a life below your standard, every time you have settled for less than you deserve, that it is ENOUGH! Make a decision to change things starting right now, and if you really want change, you will never wait another day, or week, or worse, another month!
Raise your standards – if you have been settling for less than what you want, it is time to raise your standards, otherwise life will keep giving you what you expect of it. You want more? Raise your standards and don’t expect anything less than what you want!
No more excuses – get rid of your excuses, because lets be honest, every single one of them sucks! If you are still going to let excuses dictate your life and prevent you from living the life you want, then you will never make the change that you need to. For real change, make your decision and face every single obstacle that stands in your way. Otherwise, you will always be hiding behind that excuse, year after year after year!
Get help if you need to – there is absolutely nothing wrong with asking someone for help, there is no shame in that. There are people who have walked the road that you are about to embark on, and there are people who have more experience. Those are the people who will help you get to where you need to get to faster, so never be ashamed about reaching out to them.
Get going – there is never the perfect time to start, so stop trying to over prepare. Get going as soon as possible, and you will straighten it out as you go along. Do not be trapped into preparing and researching day in and day out, because that’s all you will ever do. Take the leap, and it will all become clearer.
There is no deep dark secret to success – when it comes to success, there is no deep mysterious secret. It all boils down to making a decision that counts and actually following through with what you need to do. There are NO shortcuts to success, if you are determined enough and you let nothing stand in your way, then you know the secret to success. Just do it and never let anything stop you!
The best time to start is right now – stop making excuses and stop postponing. The sooner you get started, the sooner you will get the ball rolling, and the sooner you can live the life that you are dreaming of. The longer you postpone, the harder it becomes to get started, so start right now. If you want it bad enough, there is absolutely no reason why you should not start right now.
So, do yourself favour and think about where you want to be. What do you need to do? What do you need to do to get started in that direction?
If you are feeling overwhelmed, just stop and pause for a moment. What is the smallest step you need to do that will get you closer to your goal?
Do it! That small step, take the time right now and do it! I promise, it will feel great to do it.